Before proceeding

Before a couple proceed to the next stage of their relationship, i believed absolute frankness is essential.
In fact even before u decided on proceeding to the next stage, while u are "walking" towards that stage, u should be frank over everything that will make a difference in your scoring point.
Esp if it is something that has huge impact.

Don't ever think it's just your own business.
If u want to be accepted as family, u want people to accept the whole true u.
Don't U?

There is a need to be upfront frankness before everyone involved board the ship; u don't wait till the ship has left the harbor then inform everyone on board that the ship has got a problem.
Very often 自己坦白好过被人拆穿

Now are u hiding something?

Turns out

After 7yrs of working full time
i'm still the youngest in the whole damn office!

well... at least till this month end,
i'm still the one.

And till this day, i still have people telling me they are surprised i'm not a fresh graduate and that i have been working for the past 7yrs.

Thanks for the compliments!

瓶颈了

i luv shopping.
Which woman don't.
At least i think majority do like if "budget" allows.

Recently i am trying very much control myself from more purchases.
Especially clothes.

Cause MY WARDROBE HAS REACHED THE UTMOST ULTIMATE LIMIT!!!!
Daamnnnnn

to.to 到 Marina Barrage

A walk at

happy happy

Disappointed

i only hope happiness will bestow u.
Is this too much to ask?

i only hope u will keep safe.
It this too much to ask?

i only shared what i think and what i know but leave u to decide.
Do i deserved to be blamed for been too nosy?

i just want to do my part being elder.
i don't want to live with regrets that i withheld information that could make a difference.

i am willing to open the door to let in what i am uncomfortable with but will try to discover the goodness that u fell for.
But all i got in returned is door slammed in my face, telling me that i controlled too much.
But the remote control is never in my hand.
How do i control someone's life when i don't lead a perfect life myself.

i promised to be mindful not to be nasty & no sarcasm.
i kept to my promise.
i shared what was the promise with him, not to direct your decision.
But all i got was anger.

The situation is not going to improve if we don't make the effort.
i am slowly making the effort to improve on it, for the good of all of us.
Are u helping or jeopardizing it?

Thanks for telling me u will be better off happier if u're just a nobody to me.

Jamming with Mr. Rock

浩浩荡荡六人行去

His words are still as limited as usual.
But he seemed quite cheerful, guessed the good ticket sales for his first solo concert here gave him +ve vibes bah.

Yes, u know his sings well with his powerful vocal.
To give more entertaining value for his concert, he danced idiotically but cute.


He played piano, keyboard & drum & he skated
And he tried to give a lil speech with his cupboard figurine.
No elaborated stage design.
But the horses hindered our visual.
Sticking to mainly black & white dress theme.
As there are only 2 self albums.
He sang a fair bit of 口水歌.
Among them, the best must be this


But nothing beats hearing him sing his own songs

Adjustment

And so slightly more than 1 week after changed school, i had to make adjustment.

Waking up earlier at 7am to take public tpt to school located right in the city.

Getting used to the much reduced students headcount.
Although it's just about 15 strength, amazingly there is a good race mix.
No more all yellow skin students.

Re-building lunch kakis and work buddies network. Still in WIP mode.

More costly to lunch as food in the vicinity are not cheap due to high rental cost i assumed.
Cabbing to-and-fro appts instead of driving in comfy car. Difficult to "pontang" liao i guess.

No more philip kinda irritating security check at entrance.

Walking longer hrs (minimum of 2hrs) to present potential investors our offerings hence i need more comfy shoes.

Wide exposed seat means others can see what i am doing clearly.
There is a well stocked pantry with coffee making machines, tea bags, cookies etc.
But no more free movie tickets, no more supply of i-weekly, no more TV & radio during working hours.

Nice friendly teacher, clean school, atas school equipments.
Everybody just MYOB, so far have not notice or sense any drama yet.
i shall wait & see if the perception i have now is accurate or not.

Yet another unfaithful man

Somehow rather i wasn't shock by the news.
In fact, my first reaction upon seeing the news was: Wah! It took so long then got uncovered!
To be more clear, in fact i have heard about his (whom by now u should know who i'm talking about. If u don't just read today's news) infidelity years ago.

Ever since i stepped into the media industry, i have heard all sorts of "stories"
How many are true? How many are false?
i don't know.
But ultimately, time will tell.

And do i have to repeat this?
Men just can't be trust.
世界上没有不吃鱼的猫
It's a matter of when u're discovered.

What's Worse?

i know guys has this saying
What's worse than a P-plate driver?
A lady P-plate driver!

Now let me ask u this
What's worse than a crying baby ah bu neh neh on bus?



















a crying baby ah bu neh neh with a scolding mama ah bu neh neh sitting right behind U on the bus!

The Ugly Truth

So true right gals?
Click on each to view better!

Simple meet up

Just a simple fuss free meet up for CNY.

No fanciful food, just simple takeaway pizza & sushi.
No dressy clothes, just tees & berms.
No splendid performance, just TV show to entertain.
Yet, it was just a hearty dinner with lotsa laughters.
i like!

Google?

Why would anybody google for my blog?
Who is that?

a hot run

Weather has been so crazily hot & stuffy nowadays.

to.to ended up panting like mad during a short walk.
But i'm pretty sure he is still happy to be able to go out