Declaration

Don’t know how it got started.
But somehow I returned from all my recent trips with questions about marriage.
From friends around me.
“So did he pop the question? When are u getting married?” And then they will go into the “marriage sales talk”.
So much so that this is bothering me. Very much.

Me is no like hard sell tactic.
So pressuring me to get married does not work for me.
Especially by emphasizing that biologically our age is tick tok-ing away.
40 years old cannot be a groom? 30 years old cannot be a bride?
I don’t need the marriage cert for a sense of security.
I am happy with our current status quo.
I am just not ready to make changes.

So dear friends don’t ask me about this again.
By repeatly propping this topic only serves to turn me off.
That’s not helpful to him.

I will announce if there is going to be any changes to my status someday oneday.
Period.

p.s.: this is not a declaration that i do not want to get married to him.
so do not be alarmed.

Away to Taiwan

I am away from today till 21 Nov.

Enjoying the cool weather.
Feeding myself with the yummy food.
Soaking myself with the mountainous scenery.
Will be back with lotsa photos i promise.

Advice from a senior

Someone senior gave me the following advice yesterday:
Since your parents only have you 2 sisters, u 2 better make sure the man u marry in future will be an additional pillar to help support your family.
Must make sure he is someone who equally loves your family, wants to be a part of your family and is accepted into your family.
Don't let him pull you away from your family.
Or worse, ditch your family for the man.
If not, your parents will lose a pillar.
And that will be very sad for them cause they have no son to relay on.
Parents, the one and only one for your whole life.
But men, there are aplenty. So chose wisely.


Note to self: ok point noted.