Declaration

Don’t know how it got started.
But somehow I returned from all my recent trips with questions about marriage.
From friends around me.
“So did he pop the question? When are u getting married?” And then they will go into the “marriage sales talk”.
So much so that this is bothering me. Very much.

Me is no like hard sell tactic.
So pressuring me to get married does not work for me.
Especially by emphasizing that biologically our age is tick tok-ing away.
40 years old cannot be a groom? 30 years old cannot be a bride?
I don’t need the marriage cert for a sense of security.
I am happy with our current status quo.
I am just not ready to make changes.

So dear friends don’t ask me about this again.
By repeatly propping this topic only serves to turn me off.
That’s not helpful to him.

I will announce if there is going to be any changes to my status someday oneday.
Period.

p.s.: this is not a declaration that i do not want to get married to him.
so do not be alarmed.

Away to Taiwan

I am away from today till 21 Nov.

Enjoying the cool weather.
Feeding myself with the yummy food.
Soaking myself with the mountainous scenery.
Will be back with lotsa photos i promise.

Advice from a senior

Someone senior gave me the following advice yesterday:
Since your parents only have you 2 sisters, u 2 better make sure the man u marry in future will be an additional pillar to help support your family.
Must make sure he is someone who equally loves your family, wants to be a part of your family and is accepted into your family.
Don't let him pull you away from your family.
Or worse, ditch your family for the man.
If not, your parents will lose a pillar.
And that will be very sad for them cause they have no son to relay on.
Parents, the one and only one for your whole life.
But men, there are aplenty. So chose wisely.


Note to self: ok point noted.

Still in love with 风一样的男子

So happy to see my love appearing on Taiwan variety show.

康熙來了

百萬大歌星

still as handsome
still as cute when he smile
still as cheerful
still sing as well
me still so love him

i guess i will be seeing more of him in the near future *happy*

No Place like Home @ Wild Honey

In case you're craving for Eggs Benedict, creamy scrambled eggs with sauteed mushrooms or classic pancakes at say 1pm or 7pm; you may want to drop by Wild Honey.

A cozy eatery that serve various types of breakfast from all over the world WHOLE DAY. No matter you want it as lunch, as tea break or even as dinner, this place serves you breakfast cuisines.
i did enjoyed my meal there and i hope you will too.
and i like the homely decor of the place.
But price is abit on the high side considering these are breaky food.

Good Friends = Phenylethylamine

u know how some good friends can cheer you up like chocolate & ice cream?

Chocolate contains phenylethylamine — a mood-regulating chemical found naturally in the brain. And researchers at the University of Arizona College of Medicine in Tucson say it boost the brain's production of serotonin, a natural antidepressant.

So hanging around with friends like these are my simplest way to boost up my mood.
i love how a simple meet up is filled with lotsa laughter.
and i appreciate the effort everyone put in to keep the friendship sailing.

This is one of my chocolate friends.
A dear group of friends for 10years & still counting.
Thanks for the advance birthday treat

EYEgather

A joyful company gathering

8th - 9th Sep 2010
BBQ @ Downtown East Chalet + Ubin trip
Some of us cook, some of us plan, some of us prepared, some of us take picture
But all of us participated heartily.
Various group shots
Games planned by Game Mistresses - Me & Ong!
So we played Taboo, Guess Who, Charades, Uno Stacko & Jenga
It's been so long since i last stayed overnight at chalet.
This stay gave me an insight of a colleague
Who told us she is not intending to bath *Gasp!*
In the end, giving in to our "pressured", she showered without washing hair as she say she will fall sick if she wash hair at night.
BUT we just had a BBQ!
With all the smoke & food smell & sweat! *tsk tsk tsk*
& she snored damn loud.
So it was a unpleasant overnight stay for me.

Anyway, next day everybody gathered for a group lunch before proceeding to Ubin
Cheap ferry ride to Ubin
After 15mins we were teleported to the rustic Singapore

Main purpose of going to Ubin is to check out the famous Chek Jewa
And our sporty boss insisted we cycled up.
Well, unless you couldn't cycle then you will have to track up the hilly path.
The cyclists' half way pit-stop waiting for the "walkers"
Majority of us can cycle except the few.
And for me, the last time i cycled must be in sec school when i had a small accident at Sentosa.
Luckily this cycle trip went without mishap for me.
Oh! But i ended up with lotsa blue black on my legs & an aching butt.

After cycling for eternity, we finally reached Chek Jewa
Viewing Jetty
Viewing Tower
Mangrove Boardwalk
The Ubin residents we saw during the trip
Ended the Ubin trip by feasting on Ubin Seafood which actually tasted mediocre.
You can find much better seafood eatery in our main island
Sunset view on the ferry back to city Spore
i do quite like this group of colleague and surprisingly i quite like our ah neh boss.
This is something very unusual coming from me.
He could jolly well be the 1st ah neh i really like.
只可惜天下没有不散的宴席
Good days are just short live